why am i here?
why am i in this life?
what is my purpose here?
should i eat now or later?
what should i eat?
what would my life be like if i hadn't meet my step dad?
why am i even writing this?
why do people think that makeing them hate you will make it all better?
why do people lead you on and then tell u that its not what they want?
why? just why do people never take the blame when the bullet is embeded in a skull?
why do we shoot the gun?
why do we tell people we are ok when realy we arnt?
why do we give people permision when its not even what you want and the out-come will afect you?
why is the sky blue?
why does it rain?
is my grandad realy watching over me wherve he went when he passed away?
why did jazz get posioned and have to die? (my cat only two years old when she died)
when will i be truely happy again?
why do people have to ruin things by talking you out of it?
why is there so much hate in the world?
life is so full of unswerd questions.... i wish i knew the answers, but if i did what would be the point in even liveing?
and i gota go again
OVER AND OUT!
You are here to enhance the lives of other people around you, to share your strengths with your friends and family to make them better people,and to share your weaknesses to help them have greater empathy and understanding of the world around them.
ReplyDeleteYour purpose is to have fun, be happy, full filled and to do anything you have to to get to that point, to try to make the world a good place, use your life to make things better.
People think that making them hate you will make things better because they believe it will mean that the energy that you spend in caring for them and helping them can be spent on yourself. That they believe they are not a good addition to your life, that they will or have been hurting you. Making you hate them means that, though you will be angry you will not be burdened with them, and that within a few months or weeks you will have been able to move on, because when it comes to hate, it is the easiest emotion to use to keep ourselves protected. When we hate we do not care, do not love, anger surpasses us. So instead of dealing with the real issues sometimes we come to the ridiculous conclusion that making you hate us will make it all better. I used to do it to my friends, however I have learnt since that is\t was just my way of running away from the problem.
People always like the fact that someone likes them, that they are special to someone. Therefore the person on question will flirt back even if they do not actually like you. They want to be wanted. it is a selfish thing to do however, to make the person who adores you believe that you want them back before ripping their heart in two by one day telling you (after you have tried to take the flirting further) that they do not want you. This is becasue all thought they loved being talked to and flirted with they do not actually want you that way; or another situation they believed that they had to lead you on emotionally to get what they wanted sexually. They, knowing that girls like the emotional attachment, have played you.Then for example you may have not put out for them when they believed they had done enough "work" (The playing with your heart) this would have lead them to, when the next occasion arose declining you, and all your love.Leaving you crushed. Players think they know what they want and how to get it but really, their completely lost.
Some people never take the blame because in admitting the wrong doing, they have to acknowledge to themselves of what they really did and how wrong it was. This can be too hard for some people.As it hurts them, generally this will happen in the situation that the person in question would put themselves before most of the people they "say" they care about.
ReplyDeleteThis is also the same with the question of why do people say they are okay when they really aren't. In saying that you are not okay it is admitting it to yourself. You then are have to deal the consequences of that, you have to think about why you are not happy and what you are going to do to change it.This creates work, work that can be avoided by simply saying "I am fine/ok". Another situation may be that the person whom is not okay does not want to burden others with his or her problems. They feel that it would be unfair or selfish to burden their load on someone else. This can be a fair thought process in some situations, you just have to think about whether the person you are telling can help? Whether they can handle what they are being told? However in most situations the party being told would be happy to know what's going on so they can help their friend, even if their friend only needs someone to listen to them.
I might have to answer the rest a bit later, my hands are a little tired xx